Realizing that every circumstance in my life (whether it was positive or negative) was a direct result of my actions was the most heartbreaking, but life changing experience.
Before I began this journey, I was very good at playing the victim. I would blame everyone and anything else for all of my problems, and it was wrecking my life.
I began to take the blame in certain situations, and I took my power back. What do I mean “I took my power back?” When you hold yourself accountable, it puts you in a position to change whatever it is that you are upset about. If you blame someone or something else you give your power away.
Now, I take this one step further. I look for reasons as to why it is my fault. By doing this I can quickly pinpoint exactly what it is that I need to change!
Yes, I could continue to cry and complain about how the whole world is out to get me, or I could take responsibility, level up, and live this wonderful life! And you can too! At the end of the day the choice is always yours.
Much love,
Simply Brandi Olson
Simply Brandi Olson 
This is, many times, a hard bullet to bite. But if we do, you are right, we are able to greatly improve ourselves and our life! Thanks for the reminder!
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